Inspired by Your Body, His Temple by Matt Slick
Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God and that you are not your own?19 You were bought at a price. Therefore honour God with your body.20 (1 Cor. 6:19-20)
I know I’m not the best Christian around, but I still uphold my values vigorously. This passage came to my attention as two friends were discussing issues about the body in today’s society. While these two verses from 1 Corinthians can be interpreted about how we treat our bodies, whether we take care of ourselves or abuse what we’re given by taking drugs, smoking and excessive alcohol consumption, the other issue which came to my mind was about sexual promiscuity.
It’s no secret to everyone around me that at 21 years of age, I am in fact, still a virgin. For me, this is nothing to be ashamed of, nor is it something that I go around boasting proudly about. It is a natural state to me, as I uphold my beliefs about sexual relations.
I know that I am far from perfect in every way – none of us are perfect. However, that doesn’t mean that we can’t try to uphold important values. Personally, I cannot see myself having more than one sexual partner in my entire lifetime – that’s just the way I am. I want to try and uphold my beliefs on ‘no sex before marriage’ not because I am a prude of anything of the sort, but for the reason that I do not want to share my body with anyone else other than the man I will call my husband.
As the verse states, the bodies that we are born in are a gift from God, and therefore we should treat it with the utmost respect and honour. We honour God through what we do with our body – it is sacred in every way. This is why I am adamant against smoking, drugs and anything which damages the body.
With this said, I want to pay my respect to the Lord by keeping the act of sex as something sacred between myself and my lifetime partner. Even I cannot guarantee that I will be able to keep being like this until my wedding night, but I will try my best to do so. It is the least that I can do in order to give back to God for everything he has provided me with in this life.
To make love with a partner is something that you do to express the depths of your emotion to each other, and can bring forth the miracle of a new life into the world. I believe with my whole heart that something like that should be kept sacred between two people, and not to be abused as it is in modern society.
This is the promise that I will try to uphold to God – what will you do to show your respect?